FAQs

To RSVP, please take a moment to fill out the response card that was mailed to you. On the card, you’ll need to indicate whether you will be able to attend or not. In addition, there's a section where you can specify your meal preference, so we can ensure there's something you'll enjoy. Once completed, please return the card by July 12th, so we can finalize our plans.

To help us with our planning, we kindly ask that you RSVP for the events as soon as possible. The final deadline to submit your response is July 12, 2025. To RSVP, please mail in your response card. If we do not receive your RSVP by the deadline, we will assume that you are unable to attend.

We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up for our big day! The official dress code for all events is semi-formal required, formal preferred.

Please arrive at The Basilica of Saint Mary between 1:30 p.m. and 1:45 p.m. to allow ample time for parking and getting seated before the procession begins at 2 p.m.

Parking near the venue is limited, with metered street parking available. We recommend using Uber or Lyft for the most convenient transportation to and from the event.

Yes, our wedding ceremony will include a Catholic Mass. We invite all guests to join us in this special celebration of our union. If you are unfamiliar with the Mass, please feel free to participate in whichever way is comfortable for you—our priest will guide us through the service.

Once the ceremony begins, we ask that all phones be put away and silenced. We want everyone to be fully present with us and for our photographer to be able to capture the best moments, which we will absolutely share with you.

With the ceremony ending around 3 p.m. and cocktail hour starting at 5 p.m. you'll have a little time free on Saturday afternoon. Use this time however suits you! Head back to the hotel to rest and freshen up, grab a late lunch, or go somewhere fun for a cocktail. You can find restaurant recommendations on our website.